help!!!!
idk what im really feeling towards my boyfriend.
i used to be so inlove in love with him, but smth js clicked one random night and ig im now losing interest?? idek if its losing interest bcs if were not together i don’t message him AT ALL like he doesn’t exist. it doesnt matter how long, it could be for a week and i still wouldn’t message him. tho if were together, we act like a completely fine couple. it feels like were holding unsaid feelings towards each other (does that make sense??? idk how to explain it). ive opened up to him and told him that idk what i feel towards him but then he said lets break up. then i completely bawled my eyes out and now we’re together again….7/¥{~$$]$~!]+]{*~$|!
he does things that gives me ick and idk if thats normal.
for example, when hes mad, he punches the wall, when i wear something that is somewhat revealing he gets so bothered by it and says “dont wear that”, he is LOWKEY RACIST…. he says the n-word not to ppl and not very often. only when he gets rlly silly lmfao.
when i look at him, i want to break up but at the same time i dont. we go at the same school too and everyone in that place knows were together. if we break up and not talk, they would be gossiping some random bs and i fucking HATE that. also, my mother rlly opposes our rs and ive been thinking if i should break up with him or what. this is my first rs idk what to do!!!!!!!!!
ik i shouldnt be asking random strangers for help abt my rs life, but my everyone around me isnt helping, including my friends
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I mean you do know things have been going down so you should better choose what good for you
he is physically violent, racist and misogynistic. Your mom doesn't approve your relationship and you have no feelings for him whatsoever. What exactly is the reason you're still with him? As a slightly older girly I suggest you should just break up immediately. No back and forth bc otherwise 10 years are gonna pass and you're gonna be married to him with multiple children. Then you will curse yourself for not breaking up with him, when you were still in this stage.
hii, im kinda in a similar situation but the difference is that ive got huge life deciding exams coming so i dont have time for relationships. my parents are fine with the relationship but i personally dont like the guy even after dating for a year. i decided to ghost him since theres nothing better i can do...he also does weird shit sometimes and i would rather meet a guy who is their true self around me and everyone else. im breaking up with him when i get the chance. one tip for you is to think about your future with this man. would he be a goof father? a good husband? can you imagine this guy in an emergency situation? would he come top your rescuse. if not, then hes not a keeper. also dont give a shit about the school gossip. half the people who gossip like that end up nowhere in their lives. like...sister....there is a reason why your brain dont wanna talk to the guy.
just break up, when you truly love someone, nothing can be an ick, either it's goofy or cute never off putting
mother knows best. break up and wake up