Can someone explain
How is trans real
How can genitals not determine gender but surgery can affirm it. How can someone be a he/him lesbian.
What does genderfluid mean, and is it offensive to say you’re in the female mood? I know you’re not supposed to control it but like what does it mean when you “feel masculine”.
Dylan Mulvaney’s song prompted me to ask this. I don’t take offense (as a woman) in that her lyrics depict being a woman is just about shopping and sex, and I don’t actually think thats all that dylan feels. So what do trans woman like actually feel?
I’m not denying trans people are real I just have no idea what it feels like and I’m trying not to be biased, I’m sorry if I invalidated you/your experience, there is nothing wrong with doing stereotypical female things (as mentioned in dylans song). But like how would one define a woman despite saying the obvious, the way I see it is if you’re trans you just wanna be seen as a different gender (which is the whole metric is identifying as such) Gender is a social construct so it’s not even a real thing right, it’s just how you want to be seen by society.
Also what the hell does pansexuals do. I know the meaning and as I’m typing this I assume you can still be attracted to people but I guess you don’t “fall in love” until you really get to know them (correct me if I’m wrong)
I know minimal history on transsexuals, that there is a science for it but younger trans people kinda dismiss the term. I halfway know the trans med idea: based in that gender dysphoria is in a sense a mental illness that’s “cured” by surgery. (Could be very wrong!!)
One last thing being “genderless” is something I really don’t understand. I dont necessarily feel too attached to the female gender but I don’t really question because of the XX. I’m wondering if someone could explain what that would feel like, being genderless/they/them
Ultimately I will respect people’s pronouns as in most cases (lol neo) it’s easy and using a new name is also very simple. But I still have these questions and I’m just a silly curious person on what it’s actually like not being cis.
Hi, I do not speak for all trans people, as every person’s experience is different!
BUT let’s start off with something very basic: gender (what you identify as) and sex (what you’re assigned at birth based on genitalia) are NOT the same thing.
Confused? Here’s an example. A trans person’s gender may be male (what they identify as), b......
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17 03,2024
1. transgender people are real just because that's how biology is, like how people r born with 3 nipples (idk)
2. Genitals don't determine gender because if you're a woman and you have a penis, it doesn't make you psychologically a man.
3. Genitals don't affirm gender per say, because gender is different from sex. the affirmation is rather feeli......
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17 03,2024
The main content of your post is based on an ideology called bio-determinism, meaning every difference is determined by or based on the body that is “set stone”. I won’t make a long as rant but let me give you something to chew on.
If u have a basic understanding of quantum physics, you’d know everything fluctuates. And with that in mind ......
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17 03,2024
Disclaimer: I can only talk about the binary transgender-ness, I don't have a lot of knowledge about nonbinary people.
There are scientific explanation for transgender-ness, be it brain structure that fits the gender, chemicals in the brain, and so on.
Regarding the genitals ≠ gender:
Imagine you were in a car crash and had to have your arm amp......
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17 03,2024
At the end of the day pronouns are really just a title, so the way someone identifies doesn't really matter, so when it comes to sexuality I don't think gender really matters, though I won't deny that identifying as he/him and also being a lesbian seem like an oxymoron to me (or at least in my opinion)
I don't think its offensive necessarily to s......
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17 03,2024
Something people get wrong here a lot is Dylan Mulvaney's intentions when she made that song. Dylan isnt cringey or corny or theatrical about her womanhood because she's mocking women, shes cringe because shes a threatre kid, and thats her God given right not your excuse to be transphobic.
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17 03,2024
I don't label my gender, I use any pronouns, I'm aroace, and I was a he/him lesbian for a period of time so those are my qualifications ig
Hopefully I explain myself well because I'm not always good at that hell yeah
Pronouns aren't that serious tbh. Like to me "she/her" doesn't mean girl and "he/him" doesn't mean boy. I think of them more as mas......
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17 03,2024
No but this literally is all that dylan thinks of women. Hes a misogynistic male, hope that helps!
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17 03,2024
It's all confusing, people have different views and opinions on all of the things you mentioned, in reality there is no right or wrong answer, you will only ever find opinions, science, and lies.
But I'd like to clarify, sexuality and gender are two wildly different fields.
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17 03,2024
I wanna answer but maybe im dumb cuz im kinda confused with ur question about trans ppl
About pansexuals tho, for me I think it's just being able to be attracted to any gender, like u dont care what gender someone has you'd still like em even if they change it. And u may be referring to demisexual when u said "not falling in love until you get to ......
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17 03,2024