Religious beliefs
Tomorrow ramadan fasting month starts n I'm gonna start fasting. My bf who's really religious keeps telling me to start fearing **Him**(God) n to tell u the truth, I'm not really religious.
I follow my family's religion but I'm not so orthodox, i dun wear hij@b n i dun offer 5× prayer daily. I'm not a bad person, i just dun believe in God much.
I dun think I've committed any grave sins, I've been living a simple life n i dun want to box myself in religious restrictions. Ik he's not wrong about his intentions, but I'm just not interested in it. Tbh, even my family doesn't bother me much about it. I'm a studious person n use my time to get the academic validation.
He never listens to what I've to say. I dun think he even plans on leaving me bcoz even if i tell him to find someone who's religious instead, he just brushes over it, ignoring what I've said. It kinda stresses me out ngl. I even told him it's haram to date, so why bother dating me at all. He literally doesn't care what i say ong
If he starts to use physical or psychological blackmail to make you do any kind of religious stuff that's a BIG red flag. Breaking up with him and ending toxic relationship is fine you don't need to wait for him to leave you.
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11 03,2024
How religious you are is between you and your God, other people should stop being arrogant and interfering in the matters of your faith. I believe respect for others is one of the fundamental rules of most religions, so I do not understand why people feel entitled to force their religious views onto others. I myself were raised in a very Christian ......
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11 03,2024
Personally, girl, I think you guys should go your separate ways. You’re not religious and he is, he wants you to be religious which isn’t right at all. Everyone finds themselves eventually and sometimes religion isn’t for everyone so for him to try and force you in some way to be religious is wrong. You said in your other comments that he’s......
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11 03,2024
Just break up. Do it cleanly. Cut off all contact. I'm not saying this from religious aspects. I'm not even going to bring religion in this. But in general, when people have different view to life to this extent, they are bound to clash and you guys will just hurt each other if you stay together
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11 03,2024
Babesss he will dragg youuuuu. U better breakupp. Hes probably in hope of like you will change or worse hes just playing around w u until he found the muslimah wifey girl hs actually wants to marry. And like hes literally not listening 2 you and its abt religion, thats a rlly big thing for guys like him. Im worried abt what he will do. Stay safe!!......
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11 03,2024
Well. I was in your situation few years ago.
I am religious but not fully. I mean I try to do all stuff but I miss more and more. I do wear hijab. My family is really strict with Islam. There was a time I hated everything even Allah. My family told me many wrong hadith and force many rules which was never written in anywhere. So I wanted to prove ......
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11 03,2024
