Heavily questioning my gender atm

Im AFB and I find myself wanting to be Androgynous, feminine or masculine at times. Like i don't want to switch any parts or something like that but sometimes I just get these feelings of wanting to look a certain way and I just feel icky at times when I can’t achieve that?? Its honestly so confusing having to put this into words Is anyone else having this same experience??

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Atlas 01 02,2024

Wanting to be androgynous, feminine or masculine doesn't necessarily have anything to do with gender. You can have all those feelings but still want to be a woman - that's perfectly normal. The only advise I can give is, when the icky feelings come, try and think about whether it's only about looks (the way you present yourself) or if there's a de...... reply

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pansexual ★★★☆★ 01 02,2024

My imagination rn 1 reply

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JulietClaire 01 02,2024

Totally normal. It just means you have a wide preference on how you want to look and act depending on your mood. It does not mean you just suddenly want to change your gender. 1 reply

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Elle ne parle pas francais 01 02,2024

If you're still young this is normal and I went through the same thing. Having your body change plus the hormones from puberty is a toll on your mind. Being afab doesn't help with how society views us and all the beauty standards lingering around. Sometimes you just don't want to be perceived a certain way or at all and that's normal. Youth is al...... reply

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TheSuperBunny 01 02,2024

Try thinking about this thing without thinking about the physical part. If someone went up to you and started referring to you as a guy, would that feel "wrong"? What about being referred to as not a man or a woman? What if you were refused entry to a women only place/event? Would you be upset because "you're a woman too"? Forget about your physi...... reply

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bebs 01 02,2024

also afab here, when i was in hs i was experiencing smth like that too. idk if this way would work for u as well but heres what i did. i didnt care. i just dressed what i felt that day, act the way i wanted to act wo caring abt gender roles and stuff, not caring what others think of me whether they think im gay or i wna become a guy. i didnt care c...... reply

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jojo 01 02,2024

yea i had the same feelings back in high school (female here) but with time that feeling got lost and i just dressed as i wanted and i became more feminine... it was more of a phase ╮(￣▽￣)╭ reply

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