friends are stressful

okay i’m pretty indifferent to many things that my friends do ever since i matured more, but honestly it’s been so stressful especially in HS.

idk why but i’m just so tired of having to act a certain way for them to like me, and the moment i stop they tell me they don’t want to be my friend anymore (we “made” up, i sent them a paragraph and they sent me a couple voice messages which sounded like she was trying not to laugh. also she showed the entire thing to the friends “she didn’t want to involve) because i started just listening more than talking. and i gotten close with one of my other friends and they thought i was fake.

and i just don’t even want to go to school anymore because it’s so stressful, i want to stop being friends with them but i don’t wanna lose the friends in the group we are all in.

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[DELETED] 30 01,2024

Honestly I think you are the problem here. Don't take it personal. From your description, they seem to be fake friends that make you feel bad. Why tf are you still hanging with them? Just because you don't want to lose your friend group? Then suck it up. You have to be decisive. If they're fake and make you behave in a manner that you don't like, l...... 1 reply

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Skoopy 30 01,2024

Honestly, friends are overrated. Learn to love yourself and enjoy alone time. And learn to not take school friendships so seriously just live. Don’t think just live and engage and go with the flow. They seem like poopy friends though so find new ones but don’t be sad if you don’t have any. Don’t leave school it’s such a mistake I was in t...... 2 reply

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Ryn 30 01,2024

I went through something similar, loved my friends but it just wasn't working anymore and I realized I was always putting up an act in front of them even though we've been friends for years already and its hard to let go Others be saying surrounder yourself with people that will appreciate you as if its that easy? Most People already have their ow...... reply

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toilet terrorist 30 01,2024

Sounds like this isnt issue with having friends but YOUR friends specifically, surround yourself with people who accept you as you are and appreciate you as a person. Dont put others expectations for you to act certain way onto yourself, there are people who wont make you feel forced to change. reply

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Why do I exist ??? 30 01,2024

I think it's easy for people to say to just leave your friends, (been there, done that) but the loneliness you feel after actually breaking the friendship is immense, it feels like you have no one to talk to. Friendship is a really important relationship in life, and very beautiful as well if you meet the right people. In my case I just got lucky...... 1 reply

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Uhhh 30 01,2024

If you have to act a certain way in order for your friends to like you, then they are not your friends. Never in my life have I pretended to be someone else just so other people would like me, and I’m definitely not the person who others are trying to fake being either. I’ve never had a large friend group, and I’ve never been upset about that...... reply

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glurp 30 01,2024

Find new friends. Period reply

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