What's something you might stop judging characters for in Manhwa

I might stop judging some insecure ones so much, cuz sometimes it's understandable, while other times it's annoying as fuck cuz the authors uses it to "brag up" the character while putting other ones down, I also don't feel hateful towards love "rivals" in stories when realistically they're really great persons and in a rare case or two have wished they would get together with the ml cuz it's the fl etc being jealous and pushy as fuck, but then again I don't judge them too hard either since no matter the age jealously happens when you like someone.