I mean my relationship with my mom is honestly confusing like one moment me and my mom are fighting so bad to the point we start getting physical and I start bleeding and my legs are black and blue from getting pushed on to the floor so many times and I got 3 little cuts on my face (btw you can't even see them and they healed) and she sometimes pulls my hair and said she was going to cut it and some other stuff but the rest of the time we're chill so I don't really consider this abusive because she has to do this 24/7 to be abusive right?
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This is abuse. If you can, You should consider living with a trusted friend or relative, and try to convince your mother to go to therapy. AFTER YOU HAVE ALREADY MOVED TO A SAFE ENVIRONMENT, let your mother know you can't continue the relationship unless she seeks help. not matter WHAT SHE SAYS, and what YOU may ...... reply
Yes, that is def abuse. If you're younger than 18 u better ask a friend and they're parents for help, or another adult family member close to you who u can trust. I think this is best even if your older than 18, tell someone u feel safe around, and can trust. If she does any more physical abuse towards you again, take pictures of your wounds before...... reply