how did y'all find this site?

i started using this website b4 i found abt bl cs my main one got taken down so i found this from a friend(she was reading in schlalso ik its rep for the yaoi girls) Idk what bl was and was shocked by all the yaoi and gay men on the home page and everywherebut since it was everywhere i just gave it a chance…i am not the same anymore…
(I’m still trying to hide the fact i use this site from anyone ik irl cs of its reputation tho)