Why does the manhwa community hate women sm?

I'm targetting the villainess/historical manhwa readers like damn y'all hate on women sm it's crazy like the fact rashta gets more hate than sovieshit just blows me away?? Plus y'all hate on "soft" women like that girlie from under the oak tree but if it was a man with a soft personality y'all would be like "omg he's such a green flag"?? Calling fls 'pick me' because they have a different way of coping with their trauma other than revenge isn't also the right choice of words!!