Projecting the toxic societal standards of women onto the men who bottom, its another issue, how women dont see these men as men but their own self insert. Hell even some men dont view them as men because the way their character is designed is so fucking ridiculous. Its absolutely purity culture and slut shaming prolly rooted in internalised misogy......
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here's the thing: being promiscuous and sleeping around through your early 20s is very common among gay men. The fact that people who essentially read stories featuring gay men and yet would invalidate things that most gay men do is just... wildly insulting.
Common for gay men? I dont think thats necessarily true, it varies from person to person. I have a gay friend who is 19 and has slept with nobody by choice and another who has slept with a lot. Promiscuity isnt determined by your sexual orientation, its the content of your character. But i do agree that is it insane that people invalidate something a gay man or anybody could do, its fucking entitled.
Agreed.