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It absolutely is slutshaming. It reeks of purity culture and lowkey misogyny too. People will read rape, murder, gore, incest, but god forbid the bottom have sex with anyone other than the ML, even if it was before they met.   1 reply
23 12,2023
Like pigglypoof said it definitely has to do with slutshaming. In BLs the uke is basically seen as the "woman" since they're on the receiving end while having sex. And the patriarchal society and purity culture looks down on "women" sleeping around while "men" who sleep around are celebrated. That's why almost every popular yaoi has a player sem......   reply
23 12,2023
Projecting the toxic societal standards of women onto the men who bottom, its another issue, how women dont see these men as men but their own self insert. Hell even some men dont view them as men because the way their character is designed is so fucking ridiculous. Its absolutely purity culture and slut shaming prolly rooted in internalised misogy......   1 reply
23 12,2023
Prolly because the ukes fuck other guys and it irks people as a sort of 'cheating '. I've seen stuff where the uke is going through financial problems and sleeps with other people just to earn enough money to stay alive, but people believe that it is wrong and encourages cheating. Like rape is fine. But sleeping with other people to earn money to k......   1 reply
23 12,2023
slutshaming, purity culture, inability to handle the fact that a promiscuous person can have a fulfilling love life and misogyny if you squint   1 reply
23 12,2023
slut shaming but i feel like there's some weird pedophilic shit abt being "pure" too, that's the same ppl who would go crazy for a manwhore ML   reply
23 12,2023
I don’t like bottoms and tops that sleep around, by no means am I traditional or value virginity. I understand having numerous partners but sleeping with everything that moves is a bit much. I mean having no standards and moral compass to at least avoid married people or lovers of your friends. Also just think about the STD's that they have.   1 reply
23 12,2023
People are always saying how much they hate fuckboy semes who sleep around, so that does not seem like a bottom only issue. Either ways, as a demi-sexual person, depictions of casual sex repulses me. The sex position and gender of the character matters jack shit to me. I switch off anything with a main character that sleeps around. Though I have......   1 reply
23 12,2023
for context: this is the BL in question https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/stigma_marloong/   1 reply
23 12,2023
Me personally, i hate every gay man, but man do bottoms SUCK! Yall are one of the most vile, nastiest, sluttiest, horniest, cunt ass bitches, like yall could literally have the most average lookin dude on screen and still be sayin "HES SO HOT" like yall just want dick so bad, yall could honestly probably get off to an orc as long as it got abs an ......   2 reply
23 12,2023
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