is sex actually decent?

Short answer yes. Long answer : your first time won't be fireworks and sparkles for so many reasons but it can definitely be something good if it's with the right person and when you feel ready. In order to make it better and to make sure you have a better experience I would definitely advise you (and anyone who needs it) to learn what feels good......   1 reply

Personally I didn't enjoy it that much. It's not horrible or gross or anything - but it was definitely not worldshaking. But I've heard from others how good it can be and I'm sure this is a very individual thing. At the end of the day it's like anything else in the world, some people enjoy it more than others. And it's definitely affected by the pe......   reply

it literally all depends on who u end up doing it with tbh. and ur first time definitely won't be FIREWORKS level but it shouldn't be TOO bad..?   reply

Firstly, BLs are not realistic to irl gay sex. Especially those BLs where the uke has self-lubricating holes. Like seriously, its not a vagina.. Secondly, the experience differs from person to person, and also depending on your position, preferences and partner's skill/experiences. Which is why for most people's first times the sex usually sucks. ......   1 reply

Personally when receiving it felt weird going in, sometimes felt like it was missing something. Sometimes it was overstimulating, occaisionally started tearing up cause of it. I like giving while not being touched instead. The key is to find what you like the most and what is more comfortable.   reply