am i stupid
ok so like my bf (hes the guy from like my last question go read it and the update yall!) and we've been dating for a week now yay! ilysm and hes so handsome, cute, funny, yk
so im walking home from school and i see this girl i havent talked to in a while but we were acquaintances. i was telling her that i had a bf and i love my life yadadadada and i hear her. under her breath say siblings? and i go wtf say it again. and she was like nothing!
and i ask my friend if we look like siblings or dating and she said she kind of saw it... i said i didnt see it and she switched up...(shes kind of a people pleaser yall) and i asked my closer best friends and they said dont let words get to you, why should u care yadadada, but LIKE IDK IT GETS TO ME I DONT WANNA BE KNOWN LIIKE THAT
im full viet and hes like half viet half cambo
tbh i think our only similarity is like our straight hair cs we r asian and like the fact we both have double eyelids.. maybe i just dont wear makeup and thats why my face looks more mascline yk but like idek
ik im stupid and i shouldnt be like concerning myself w this but i am. guys please PLEASE PLEASE comfort me
I deadass think she's just racist
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16 11,2023
Congrats on dating and I don’t think you should concern urself too much cuz I’ve seen some ppl who legit look like brother and sister cuz they’ve got the same ethnic background . Also it don’t matter if ur face look masc ppl can have androgynous features no shame in that.
But lol I personally wouldn’t date someone that could look like m......
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16 11,2023
Aye, you know what they say? Couples who look alike (not blood related or anything), tend to last long.
I don’t know if this is supposed to help or not but be happy! Don’t let other people’s words get to you or negatively impact you and your relationship.
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16 11,2023
It's just really the fact that people mistakes things. It's why doppelgangers exist. No need to worry in my opinion.
Luna
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16 11,2023
Girl don’t even worry about it. Races share similar features like nose, hair, etc. it’s only natural if y’all have similarities as your both viet. What she said was rude as hell especially right in front of your face?! That can be considered as a microaggression. Like why did she feel the need to say that right there and then? Don’t let he......
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16 11,2023
I choose the entertaining route of her being ignorant about race but vehemently prejudice towards siblings
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16 11,2023
Well, there's a superstition that if the person you're with looks like you, then they're probably your soulmate. Also alot of married couples look the same too. I think this would count as a win, so don't worry about it.
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16 11,2023
All races are bound to have similarities so don't worry about it too much, yall probably do have some similarities but like that's okay don't worry, your acquaintance was just saying it out of spite and to make your relationship seem weird
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16 11,2023
