What do guys think about masturbating to porn ?
Regardless of being in a relationship or maybe even while being in a relationship what do you guys think about watching porn and masturbating ? I think it's wrong most men will disagree but watching porn is cheating because all your love and sexual energy is supposed to go to the woman u love.but honestly men don't understand love and that's why so many of us women get hurt while loving and not being loved to the point of our love for them . I Am in a relationship this is my first one and I'm long distancing. My relationship has become toxic I think I really hate him but I also feel bad without him.he watched porn when we were falling for each other and he continued doing well hat till the first month of the relationship.aftet the first month the second month he for USA ..he didn't tell.me anything about doing this and then after 3 months of LD he comes back and that's when we became sexually active. After staying for 3 more months he goes back to USA and then he tells me that he had masturbated to porn the first month of our relationship and that he's demisexual only i turn him on watching other women dosent interest him and so I asked then why did u do it ? He said I thought this was normal since all my friends do it and everyone does it . That really pissed me off because he should have his own brain and sex isn't just anything normal it's commonsense that it's to be done with yourbpartner . I also don't get how people have several partners in a lifetime because if u truly love someone how can u get over them or forget them . The worst thing my boyfriend did which hurt me a lot was, I was emotionally unstable so I was trying to cut my wrists thinking that this would hurt him but I'm an idiot men just don't care ever anyways I was trying to cut myself and j told him u watch porn and do it Infront on me now onward kind of forcing him and then he did it he said that he was cross eyed and he didn't even look at the porn h to as thinking of us having sex so i asked him don't u think it's very sick to think about having sex with me while I'm literally trying to harm myself and then he said he did because he was dissapointed in himself for cheating on me in the first month basically watching porn and that he wanted me to leave him and that's why he thought of me and him and got hard so that I'd leave him. I have a lot more to say but it's not possible to say so many things .so what do u guys think ?
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Now as for the cutting yourself part girl please I’m begging you, don’t hurt yourself or harm yourself just for a man. Regardless of my or anyone else’s ideals if you feel that your partner shouldn’t watch porn and you don’t like it then you express that to them and if they don’t listen to you and if they make you feel the way that your feeling then you need to leave them!!!!! You are worth so much more than this!! Please please I’m begging you don’t do these types of things! I think that you should get away from that relationship and take some time to love yourself and work on your mental health, then find a man who will love you unconditionally that you will not have to compromise your beliefs or ideals for. I hope this helps!!!!!
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Think of it this way would you rather have your man at home masturbating to porn or out in the streets trying to do it with another woman? I personally don’t see a problem with it because I’m the only woman that he’s with and at the end of the day porn isn’t real it’s mostly acting. I also watch porn myself so it just doesn’t seem like a big issue to me.
I don't think that watching porn is cheating. I don't think I will feel hurt if my boyfriend will watch porn. Some people watch porn together. He even told you so he was being honest. If he's watching it too often it may become a problem.
What is concerning me is you hurting yourself. No matter what happens, your life is the most important so don't make choices that you'll regret later. Cutting yourself is not a solution for any of your problems. The efective way is to face your problems and taking action. If you can't think of a solution then try talking with someone.
From what you said I think you're under 18.Believe me even if some problems seem big now in a few years you wouldn't even know why you were so upset.