what counts as virgin

Apparently, sex toys don't count, but I ain't using them because it feels like they should count and I'm a chicken that fears pain.   2 reply

I use vibrators and dildos as well for masturbating, and I consider myself a virgins since I haven’t had sex yet. ┑(￣Д ￣)┍   reply

I don't think penetration (by a real dick, omg) only counts as sex, because then all lesbians would be virgins even if they have lesbian sex, and that straight men or gay tops would also be virgins because they haven't been penetrated. Which makes absolutely no sense. To me, a virgin is someone who hasn't had consensual sex, with the meaning of sex......   reply

In my country you're not considered a virgin if you've bled after having sex or shoved whatever in your cooch. ╮(￣▽￣)╭   1 reply

tbf this is an interesting place to come in and ask a nuanced question. most people told you that "only real flesh can make you lose your virginity "which is ... interestingly old greek lmao. but in a lot of countries where i grew up they equivocate virginity to the hymn although not accurate a lot of places with still conservative backward traditi......   reply

You're a virgin if a ding-a-ling hasn't entered your cooter, bootyhole, or mouth.   reply

You’re a virgin until you’ve been penetrated by another person. Why is this still a debate   1 reply