Toxic bl comments/reviews rant

Why do people get so mad when people call out the toxic shit in bls??? Like you could literally call a racist a rapist and people would dislike your comment call you a dumbest, say you don't get the story and send you 6 pages long arguments on why the rapist is actually a good guy and poor him he had a bad childhood, so annoying
"Dark romance" IS NOT FREE FROM CRITICISM LOL, a story with no story and only sex can be called bad so what if its porn lol just because it's smut doesn't mean the plot has to be shit, it would literally make the sex scenes better if the story was ACTUALLY good and the characters actually treated each other like respectable humans
The way I straight up can't trust the ratings on this stupid ass site because as long a bl got sex in it yall give it 5 stars, DEVELOP SOME CRITICAL THINKING SKILLS
"You shouldn't expect yaoi to have plot their yaois blah blah blah" so why can't I say the plot is ass ???