Confessed to crush but got rejected
So this happened when I was back in the third grade and I had decided to finally confess to my crush but when I did he just stood there and only one thing came out his mouth and that was (.........okay) then he just walks back over to where he was playing. I feel like the only thing that hurt me that day was the fact that I had finally gathered the courage to tell him and he instead of just telling me he doesn´t like me just walks away leaving an awkward atmosphere. (⊙…⊙ ) ╥﹏╥ （￣へ￣）
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At least you took your true feeling out off your chest! In my experience, I liked an actual jerk. He played with me plus led me on before I discovered he had a crush on another girl. So, I got tired of him since he kept vaguely giving me an answer to go together to prom and I was deciding I might as well go alone with my friends. Then while I was discussing it with my friend group, another friend joined and asked me to go with him. Neither liked each other beforehand and I was still planning to go with my friends so I accepted and told him about our plan. I had to tell my (ex)crush by then that I was definitely not gonna go with him and that I would rather go alone than with him(which he probably misunderstood). We went and had fun, this jerk looked surprised but we just kept having fun.
Then the next year since the friend that invited me transferred school, this guy was saying my friend was gay or something like that. Like that’s meant to ruin my prom experience? We had no feelings for each other and he was a great person and a perfect partner that day in my POV so I didn’t care. Plus by the end of high school I started to understand I might be bisexual or lesbian since I really didn’t want to be in a true relationship with my exes like I ended it when they wanted to kiss me or get more physical(non-sexual) though I still admire guys.
Honestly, what I’m saying is that your crush should not be your priority. Feeling dejected, embarrassed and/or angry are still valid human emotions so acknowledging them rather than suppress them is much more better. After I spoke to him to inform him about my final decision to prom, I felt great. Then by the last two years of school, we started to be good classmates and I felt no bad feelings towards him nor love but a bit of respect by then since he was resilient with his goals and had other good aspects during school. Our experiences help us develop great skills like being able to move on and our feelings still valid(before and after being rejected). Hope you’re doing well and keep safe during this pandemic!
Thanks, I really needed that I sometimes have the habit of suppressing my feeling which started at a young age. But I'm (kinda) over but sometimes the memory just comes to haunt me and id sometimes wonder if I was just dumb for liking that guy even if he´d always seem nice to me personality or so family and friends and I have said (Naive-family/or apparently to nice) ( friendly/nice/quiet/sometimes talkative/responsible /smart-said by friends) (Naive, low self esteemed the only thing that lets me relaxed is reading, chrome book/books and listening to music (7th grade now?(13 old)Sorry if this is off topic (￣∇￣").
My God, he such a jerk!
Mine was when I told my crush and then that person accepted it leaving me in cloud nine while going home then unable to sleep. The next day, when we meet at school that person rejected me.