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noellechan noellechan 2023-11-01 13:21:42 About question
one time i let this guy copy off my notes during lecture and he just started following me around, thinking we're friends. and i hate him so much. at first i allowed him, thinking, "oh, he mustve been lonely since he a transferee and all" and these days since "we're closer" he just becomes too much. i dont even consider him a friend. hes annoying af, always wants to talk about himself and all of his diseases, and he always wants to be the center of attention, ALWAYS.

one time, i was talking with another friend of mine, we were joking around about our fathers, and suddenly, he wants the conversation to be about him. imagine my shock when i was joking about how i want my father to give me land when i graduate and he just butts in and says "do yall know my ex messages me last night saying she wants to try again" WE DO NOT CARE UGLY ASS BITCH NO ONE CARES ABOUT YOU YOU SHREK LOOKING LIKE ASSHOLE

and lately, just these past week, he messages me, saying "hey, can i rant to you", and i ofcourse wont reply to him, but MF CANT TAKE A HINT and still says his rant to me IN PERSON like DO I LOOK LIKE I FUCKING CARE YOU OGRE ASS BITCH

i cant even just cut him off bcs itll be awkward for the whole friend group, i cant talk about this to anyone bcs then ill seems to be the villain who hates on an innocent person, and i cant distance myself because as i said, he follows me around

so please help me.

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Mika November 1, 2023 2:39 pm

Nuh uh those kinda ppl just don’t seem to care for boundaries like that. Like ur not their therapist. It be best to just ignore them and try to distance urself from them if ur worried ab other ppl thinking ur in the wrong-

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