Asexual and/or Demi-sexual

Ok ok so my friend got a bf not long ago and even before they were already flirting and like sexting (she bought sexy panties for him before they even got tgt) anygays they get together and they both gave each other their virginity after a week.

The moment she texted me “we fucked oopsies” I immediately cringe with a very uncomfortable and pretty disgusting feeling. Not because they did it but because I would litteraly throw up if I had to.

I had my suspicion that I was on the asexual spectrum. I’m pansexual but I honestly wouldnt and don’t feel sexual attraction to men compared to how I sometimes feel it for women.

I’m also asking myself if I’m Demi because I legit can’t comprehend the “love at first sight” or the “we met a week ago let’s date” I don’t feel romantic feeling for people that I haven’t developed a relationship with and that are close to me. Definitely why bestfriend to lovers is my favourite. But in a way isn’t that most people?