How do yall do it
Yall legitamately how do yall just be having relationships and not get bored.
Like i can’t even get past the talking stage without them complaining to me about being unresponsive or not hanging out with them as much as i should or something. Like legitimately how do yall do it.
Also speaking of the talking stage it is so much time and effort to have to texts these guys about boring shit that i am not at all interested in.
I feel like on paper having a friends with benefits is so much easier cause it’s you don’t have to do all that. The only issue is that it always ends up in them tryna take the relationship further and then i have to deal with even more problems. Like is it just me? Am i going for the wrong guys? Do i just not like guys?
On top of that some of you are out here CHEATING????? You’re telling me that yall are juggling not one but two relationships without either of them knowing???? HUH????
Honestly i know I’m probably the only one who thinks this way but let me know if i have a point or if i just sound crazy.
I think communication becomes easier once you just go with the flow and (sometimes) try to match their energy, me nd my gf talk like friends about like everything
Like u said, setting boundaries is so much easier on paper but i think a text clarifying what u consider as "safe" does the job, smth like "btw i need u 2 know that i dont rlly feel comfo......
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12 10,2023
