i could be talking about how i hung out with my mom and had fun and someone would trauma dump like, "oh, at least your mom loves you" or something along the lines and like, HOW DO YOU RESPOND TO THAT?? yes, i feel guilty. yes, i want to comfort them but i honestly feel so uncomfortable like let me talk about my day without feeling guilty or uncomfortable
Usually I say some smart ass response like "yeah she loves me to pieces. Why, does your mom not love you?" Bc my friends makes jokes like that and we joke abt her deadbeat mom all the time reply
