but honestly an observation I've seen with how rape is written in stories.
yaoi + rape = meh
shounen ai + rape = actually scary
Yaoi just isnt serious sometimes. Like these mfs will have a rape scene then the next the character who got raped will be all chirpy like it never happened. Like wtf bro. Who wrote this.
in general they're all bad you can have a story without putting sa on it we don't need more proof that the ml is fucking toxic or the mc getting sa just for plot reply