Opinions on the term "yaoi"

I understand what you tryna say. I have some friends who when i mentioned yaoi thought it's just gay porn I read when I am reading that stuff for the plot. It all comes down to perspective and what the person who said it is trying to say. Personally I don't care. Even if you say BL people think you are a fetishizer. At this point it's time to stop ......   reply

the fact that this came up as i was ab to read yaoi   reply