Fiction and real life is different

Hey....I think you are mixing Fiction and real life.....fictional stories don't hurt anyone in real life.....fiction stories are meant to be far away from reality.....and if it was a case in real life then I am sure everyone would support the victim because they are a REAL PERSON.....Fiction is just supposed to be enjoyed and not overthought about.....it's not like we are encouraging rape.....we know it is wrong in real life.....so what if we read it in fiction?No one is getting hurt......if you don't like or feel uncomfortable when reading rape content then DON'T READ IT.....stop attacking people who KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FICTION AND REAL LIFE.....STOP RELATING FICTION TO REAL LIFE.....IT ISN'T REAL....

you're really challenging aren't you, "BL army". not to mention you're typing like a 12 years old but you're incapable of reading what I wrote. you're reusing the same phrase again like you're some kind of cult, are you trying to convert me to your deranged mindset?? :(
grow up sweetheart, you need to understand some things shouldn't be romanticized. my experience shouldn't be displayed as something good. and a fujoshi shouldn't be telling people that we should accept her weird kinks. like please address it as it, you enjoy reading forced sex :) don't you feel the butterflies too, baby? haha. stop saying you guys are soooooo fucking innocent and you know how to tell the difference between fiction and reality. poor you.. who am I to attack your innocent souls . I say, let's allow people who "enjoy fictional stories" of CP to do the same. they're as innocent as you. because they can tell the difference between fiction and reality too. wdym that boner is a sign they should be jailed up--? ITS FICTION.

idk who you think you're talking to. because I ain't a kid but you definitely are and I think you should go off reading gay porn for a while. it's brainwashing your thoughts about atrocious things like rape and it's not okay

.....I was just trying to tell you that fictional rape are most of the time mistaken as rough sex....there are rape fictions that depict actual real life rape.....and I don't thunk anyone likes that.....what is your problem? No one is getting hurt by what they read here.....I literally said that whatever written in a story or shown in a drama or manhwa is not always promoting or demoting something in real life......there are so many fucked up horror stories that don't even have rape but are messed up.....It's pure fantasy and mature ones know that those stories are just for entertainment......I am not trying to turn you into anyone....just trying to make you understand my pov.....If I like murdering people plots in fiction that doesn't mean I will go around murdering people because I know it's wrong and I will end up in jail.....Fiction is created so that you can forget what's wrong for once and just carry on with it.....according to you what is rape? One person says stop and the other doesn't.....sometimes in rough sex scenes this happens....you don't just call it rape,right? Would you call CBAW ch146 rape? Or Stranger than friends chapter 10 rape? Both of these are not rape to me but just rough sex.......some Manhwas do contain rape and Yandere lovers like in A tree without roots.....it is a great manhwa with an amazing plot and the rape scenes actually fit the plot.....it was probably rape in one scene and the rest were just rough sex because the uke had to give consent in the next scenes.....it's toxic and abusive but that doesn't make the manhwa any less interesting.....many people like reading toxic stuff online....doesn't mean they want toxic stuff in real life.....because in reality toxic love doesn't turn out to be good and the Yandere lovers are dangerous....I'm tired....why don't we just remeber how horrific rape is in real life and continue reading the romanticised version cause who care? We care about reality enough to care about Fiction....don't like it?don't read....it's as simple as that.....

oh god.. you're a lost cause. I gave you a better example than criminals. because in those horror movies they're not represented as a good thing. they're bad.

but I told you about people reading cp. because it's the same shit. it's the normalization of pedophilia, but hey the little one is like 400 years old so it's okay. the same you said that yeahh the guy said no but it was only rough sex.. without his consent, but it's definitely not rape. LOOK! now he's mad in love with his rapis- his soulmate. such a great story. again, did u feel those butterflies while he was constantly refusing a guy he probably only met a few days ago? gay men be doin that./j

I completely understand people who may be enjoying messed up stuff.. I like good psychological stories too. they're exciting, they're interesting but we're not talking about psychology here, and you know that. we're talking about romance. we're talking about two men who are supposedly endgame and who start their relationship with rape.. just to give the readers some sex scenes. nothing is exciting about rape being normalized like this in a love story.

and yk what's even more upsetting? ppl like you are the first to call out rape or.. "rough forceful sex" under a straight love story. go to any story who starts like this and be assured people won't turn a blind eye. but when it comes to men it's another story and it's really fucked up when you remember how much society ignores men's SA experiences, ignores to help or to listen to them. it's damaging when you know how many underage girls maybe even boys are here reading this shit and don't realize how wrong this is and how much we shouldn't be romanticizing something as wrong as this, being it fictional or not.. like what's next on your list.. slavery? pedophilia..? oh wait they exist already.

You know how companies will pay thousands and even millions on advertising? It's a strategy to slowly worm their pitch into your mind, it creates a subconscious sense of familiarity and makes you far more likely to buy into what the company is selling. This is amplified even more when influencers are backing the product, like the chrome extension honey that turned out to be a scam(obviously). Now you're probably thinking what in the world does this have to do with rape in stories, it's exactly the same. When an act of violence like rape is constantly portrayed in media in a way that makes it seem normal and even romanticizes it, it can make you less firm on your stance about rape and subconsciously change your view on it as something other than a tragic like altering nightmare-inducing experience. Why do you think people will ask rape and SA victims if they "liked it" or said no? I mean obviously we do but people don't take our no seriously because they think it's just us playing"hard to get". You've probably heard phrases like "it hurts", "stop", "let go", "too much", "get off", "I don't like it", and "no" repeated multiple times in many stories before and these are all very clear commands but because of the way that stories make things they've been desensitized to us and sexualized as some sort of tsundere thing, like we're lying and we actually really wanted it. You know where the impact is even clearer is in the places these stories come from, like south Korea and Japan. In South Korea it's dangerous for women to get drunk or even tipsy because men will try to force her home with them and have sex with her while she's intoxicated (and then blame her for being intoxicated in the fist place). In Japan it's such a common thing to be assaulted and groped by men on subways that there is a NAME for the word, it's even a "fetish" that had many stories made about it. And because these stories have been made and our cries have been watered down people are far more likely to be open about this and commit these crimes and even more common to get away with it. (like the case of the 9 year old girl getting raped three different ways in public by an old man after helping him and then him getting away with it with a sentence of a couple of months because he had the smell of alcohol on him. There are literally signs everywhere there are steps or escalators warning females wearing skirts long or short to beware of people taking pictures up their skirts, this problem is so bad that the government literally made it so phones legally NEED to have a loud shutter sound you can't turn off to try and prevent this. Men aren't allowed onto the floor that malls have photo booths either because it's notoriously common for women to get raped and even murdered in them by multiple men hiding in them. There are tiny police departments literally like ever few blocks to allow women getting assaulted to have an easier time getting to safety and reporting the crimes going on. This has been so so so normalized in the media there that this stuff is normal and expected to happen to you, like remember the whole yandere gag and pantie shot gag in animes, yes that overtime has an impact and effect on society there, by promoting stalking and sexual crimes so much that it's actually hard to press legal repercussions on perpetrators. You're more likely to be shunned for fighting back and called tainted goods then you are supported because there men can easily get away with crimes and they know it. Media has an effect on people and especially young people that dont know any better, being taught that this is how to love someone and show your attraction to them is horrible. Don't hit me with that "You should be able to separate it from real life" bs because it is literally in line with a marketing tactic designed to CHANGE YOUR MIND, and who is most susceptible to this are children who're curious and despite how smart they might be their brain still isn't fully formed enough to fight off this repetitive tactic. I'm done yapping now, sorry.

Bro...I am just trying to say that the authors have the right to write whatever they want in their fictional story....the point of fiction is that it should not be related to real life...We may relate some good things that are still fictional to real life but the bad stuff should stay fictional...And if you are worried about young children being mislead by the fictional stories...Well then that is why I wrote that real rape is completely different that what is mostly shown in BLs which the authors use to romanticise the characters....The real humans are not characters of some manhwa so why the hell should we compare characters to real humans...Whenever you see a person trying to not differentiate between fiction and reality....just give them a reality check....You can't stop the authors just cause young children might get mislead....Young children should not be reading fiction if they can't understand that in real life rape is different us a horrendous incident that has ruined lives....There is a lot of bad in this world that is apart from reality morals....So it should be the responsibility of mature readers to educate new readers about fictions...

And many SA victims actually develope a liking to rough sex or CNC...to cope with their trauma...Many people like fictional stuff that they would actually hate in real life because in this world we can control what we watch and read....Something like that

Those sort of commenters are awful. Can’t believe they write that crap.
I agree too, the kind of ignorance of saying “he enjoyed it” is the worst. Being able to wring out a physical response can simply be an involuntary reaction that does not equate to enjoyment. Even worse, those who were raped yet their body responded to stimuli against their will, they struggle with some serious additional mental trauma and self hate.

Yeah...Those commenter are awfull...I know because I used to be one because sometimes the uke would say "I never gated your touch" but still would say "No" "Don't" and "Stop"....Well that was a really psychologically challenging for me to understand that it was actually Stockholm syndrome but at the end I did understand how wrong I was....The only Red/Black flag I truly like is Heeseo...from "Tree without roots"...Even the author said that he would be the sweetest clingy bf if his mother didn't die....I like everything about him, his character is so complex....But what he is doing to the uke isn't right....The uke did make some mistakes in the past and they played a part in making Heeseo into the monster he has become in the present....The story is very intriguing and the shut scenes are hot (They are non consensual and very wrong but I still like them)...Kinda hated myself at first but then realised that I am not the only one and that it is okay to like something while knowing that it is wrong in real life....

Sorry...rambled there a bit...My head and heart are a mess because of "Tree without Roots"...