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omg did i just read myself ?! no but seriously i relate a lot to what you said. it's really difficult for me to make friends. I try to talk to them, they always nice (more like polite) to me but that's it, they don't seem to be interested in me. A day in college for me, if I don't summon all my courage to approach someone, I won't be talking all da......   1 reply
04 09,2023
I think people find you a bit hard to approach? your attitude n stuff, I don't mean that in a negative way but yk like the expression I guess?? Maybe find an opportunity to start a conversation? just be friendly and keep the topic simple, try to leave an easygoing impression. I'm not good at giving advice and I don't have really really close friend......   1 reply
01 09,2023
Whenever you first meet people they don’t care about your hobbies or any of that deep stuff. Just be social able and happy (funny is a bonus). Once you get closer to them, if you do, then slowly open yourself up to them by finding things in common like shows, talk about your relationship/life, or video games if you’re a guy (I don’t like vide......   reply
06 09,2023
It’s great that you’re interesting, but it might not the most important thing for when you’re trying to make friends. You might not struggle with striking up conversations, but maintaining them might be the issue. People often enjoy being around those who compassionate and interested in what they do. I am sure you have those qualities, but yo......   1 reply
04 09,2023
Its prob your social skills and people might not understand your intent clearly. If you want to improve, I would always suggest starting small talks with strangers, especially elders/kids since they enjoy the company most of the time. You can start the topic like the weather or how they doing and crack a joke or 2. It might take a while but you'll......   reply
06 09,2023
It's normal to feel that way, if you want to expand your circle, you can try join any programs or event that is held by your college. If you don't know what to talk about, try ask some general questions related with the person you're talking to, maybe you'll find some common ground, after all people like to talk about themselves, but always remembe......   reply
06 09,2023
After having a baby I dumped all my friends bc they wouldn’t get their sht together. Now I struggle to make friends bc most ppl like me, who’ve had my life experience, are dead or drug addicts. I’m a neurodivergent reformed trainwreck with a history of trauma and who did sex work. I don’t relate to other moms & I fear letting ppl close. Bu......   1 reply
06 09,2023
I also have a very small friend group, barely 2-3 friends at school. I am not familiar with any of the juniors or any of the seniors. Only my best friend is in the same class, but we sometimes have to changes classes, so then I end up all alone. I spend like, half of my day alone at school, everyday. I don't have a single online friend. I had 2 du......   1 reply
06 09,2023
I don't really have many friends either, but my case is somehow different. People approaches me but I don't really like to have close up relationship since I was a child. I know how to approach to the ones I have to in order to maintain certain contacts so I will share what I've been doing. Fist, if you want to make "true friends" you have to cha......   reply
06 09,2023
I've never had a ton of friends, but i know how to make them. People often talk about being unapproachable, and that is a factor, but sometimes you have to suck it up and be the one to APPROACH. latch on and don't let go. now that doesn't mean become a stalker, and don't leave them alone if they ask you to, it means open yourself up. it means act c......   reply
06 09,2023
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