What's up with female anime/ manga fans&Only Fans women being pick me's?

Just a little rant but why is it women that do only fans and female anime fans tend to be the biggest pick me's. Like for instance, a lot of only fans models would condone men that demonises women and don't see them as human beings whilst simultaneously acting as if their "promiscuous" behaviour represents all women. Then there's those female anime fans that is ready to jump down anyones throat and call them "woke" if you even dare to criticise a shounen anime for its poorly written female characters, let alone actual problems in anime/manga and the anime community as a whole. Idk, this thought has been stuck in my head for a long time now.