When did you realize that you were a toxic friend?

Ahh, when I started getting jealous that they were talking to someone other than me. This happened with an internet friend of mine. We got along like a house on fire and I may have developed a small crush on him. We'd only been friends for around a month and a half when I started monitoring who he was talking with. We met on Amino and I knew all ......   reply

I guess I had a friend that I knew for more than 4 years and I got really insecure when she started hanging out other classmates more than me and so I just gave up and stop talking to her. I knew that it was good she was making new friends but I felt that she gotten more distant and I wanted to be special to her. There was 2 times I heard her talki......   1 reply

Unfortunately, there were two cases and I only realized after we separated, in both cases. I would get extra possessive and jealous to the point I would harm and piss that person off on purpose just because I couldn't control myself. I wanted to be understood but it just came off as pushy and aggressive. Also, in the other case, I wanted them to sh......   reply

I don't really know if it was toxic, but I think it was during high school. Before the end of my 10th grade, some people just told me that i was funny but sometime I was kind of weird because it always look like im trying to put some wall between them and my friends or between them and me. So I think it was at this moment that i knew i fucked up. a......   1 reply

When i make jokes that is sensitive to them and I didn't realize it sooner and its affects their self esteem so i stop making some shit joke   reply

When I didn’t try and get my best friend help for her drug addiction because I didn’t want to lose her as a friend. I cared more about our friendship then her life. I was young and thought that by keeping her secret I was able to help her because she would trust me. Now she is in prison. I miss her so much and always wonder if I told would she ......   reply

Ive had psychological issues and i tend to isolate myself(really bad problem of mine) Rather than facing the problem i left my friend hanging. And yes i always do that when we had arguments or when there's problems in general. She is important to me however i feel like my defense mechanism hurts her. I mean who likes being left? After 2 years of n......   reply

I get jealous easily & I'm super obsessive to ppl who gives me enough attention :T to the point where i would want to know everything about them and what they're doing, with who & why, but haven't reached a point of never return yet, 'cause after some pain i know it's not the same for them, apparently I'm not very good at showing it ether, it all g......   reply