Why do you find yourself being more cringy in 2019-2021?
For me I think the reason I still cringe at my own answers and thoughts is because I was still trying to deconstruct myself from the racist/sexist/queerphobic pipeline that I was unknowingly climbing on when I was really younger. Now I like to think I've completely detached myself from those damaging ideas and pursue a better path, and looking back....I mean I was definitely better than who I was in 5th/ early middle school, but I was still yikes sometimes. I also thought that I was just generally less funny (/TДT)/
I didn’t realize how normal it was for BL to contain SA in it and always thought the seme was doing something “ attractive “ because everyone else was fawning over it, so I did too.. Do I wish I could turn back time? Yes 1 reply