hello to anyone reading this! i’m about to graduate college (without a lot of friends nor career-relevant experience) and i’m really curious what others on here decided to do with themselves post-high school, post-college, or just in general. obviously i’m going to try to find a job so i can “make my own way,” but i don’t find much of anything makes me happy. i know wanting happiness is a luxury - my financial stability provides me plenty of free time to explore my interests, like manga - but i am stuck feeling like i have nothing to live for. i have no close friends nor passions that i can feasibly pursue, and most of my post-graduation life will likely be spent at home. though i very much love my mom, i feel like i’m disappointing her with the downward trajectory my life has taken, so would prefer not to stay at home. how should i build up the motivation to do something with myself? i feel so hopeless now.
disclaimer: i like anime & kpop but can’t find either fulfilling... no genuine human connection there
I feel ya.... I’m also about to graduate from university. No friends, no real life social connection, no major related work experience... sigh can’t even think about how I’m gonna manage everything after graduation. Of course I’ve a lot of work experience here and there but not anything related to my major. I started to do volunteering work...... 1 reply
Hello, I graduated last year. And I am still unemployed. When I was in college I had these dreams. These ideals. I thought me getting a job would be smooth-sailing af because I graduated. But, things happened and I wasn't able to get a job because I had to stay at home. I was feeling soooooooo confined in our house that I would cry out of frustrati...... 1 reply
---I feel you, about the friends and hobbies that are usually done solo(drawing, reading, writing, plants, embroidery, etc) and most friends left to do there own thing. I am lucky enough to find a career that is both self satisfying and I can cope with the emotional/physical stress of the job(assisted living caregiver) I wanted to reply to see if I...... 2 reply
