Did you start off reading sweet and vanilla BL or sexy BL?
Personally I'm pretty sure I started off with anime on YouTube so didn't really show the sex scenes but then I found webtoon nothing really changed but then I found this site a few years ago and then I started reading this sexy 1 so I 1st started off with the cute ones that I got here;)
Does boku no pico count because it was boku no pico I mean that's probably sexy BL but let's be real here the only people who found that sexy were those desperate fujos in like 2008 who would reach for anything reply
