Phew. Okay so i was forced to join an exchange program and stuff and i need to social and share abt my country and all.. except im actually freakin anxious and totally insecure with myself.. kinda suffocating to talk to anyone f2f and i reaaally need any good advice for me to be not socially awkward..? Lawrd kill me
Well , I am also freaking anxious in front of people and making eye contact with other . But the tips I got from my mum ( actually I observe my mum who love to social any stranger around her ) is smiling with your heart content . Smiling is enough to make other relieve and comfortable around you . U can also ask theirs whereabout ? Asking if they a...... 1 reply
First of all, I'm so sorry you were forced to be in an exchange program, I'm sure that's not helping your anxiety. :(
I too get really anxious in social situations, especially with new people in my job where I am expected to be social. I find that preparation helps a lot, having conversation topics ready should there happen to be a lull. If you a...... 1 reply
Well knowing more about whatever culture/country you're going to be staying at will probably help a bit. If you know what their social norms are you'll know how to interact with them. It'll be okay. Just look at Viktor and Yuuri and know you'll be perfectly fine. 1 reply
I went to therapy for a short while for social anxiety so i have a few tips.
First give a good first impression, be friendly and talk to as many people as you can. It will be hard on the first day but it will make it easier in the long run.
Second before leaving for the exchange program put yourself in situations that make you anxious (start small...... 1 reply