being bi

ı am actually a bi and my friends dont kknow about it. ı actually tried to tell them ones because they speak like ''you know ı am hetero but ı respect the lgbtq community and stuff'' or '' I wish ı am gay but ı am not'' and stuffs like that so once ı told my friend like ''you know ı have a friend and she is gay she has a girlfriend. and she told me ''well how are you feel about it are you ok? . are there any specific times that she touch you or doing something sexual to you and you didnt notice ?'' and I acutlaly become shock and disgust by it ?? Like ı can never tell them because they actually dont respect and being homophobic ? what do you guys think ? am ı being overreacted ?? (〜￣△￣)〜