I date my bf for almost a year already and whenever we had sex I don’t felt anything at all i mean like no pain, no pleasure and all those shit i supposed to feel when we he entered me. So idk what to do anymore I don’t want to tell him about this thing I don’t want him to be sad. I’m so frustrated rn ╥﹏╥
I am assuming that your BF is either young, inexperienced and focusing on his own release or you are a damn good actress. After a year of having sex with someone, an experienced, attentive partner would notice that you're not feeling it... unless you're damn good at faking an orgasm. I am also assuming you're a girl since it is hard for a guy to fa...... 1 reply
The year 2020 and girls still not knowing about the clitoris. Men are ignorant, they think that pumping away in your birth canal is gonna do something for you. Nah. You need to get that clit, girl. Use toys, your hands, whatever. And if he's not willing to do what it takes and/or support you while you do what it takes to get you off, he's not worth...... 1 reply
My question with that would be, do you also feel nothing with masturbation?
If you do orgasm from masturbation I would say to make sure to stimulate your clitoris and hit the right spot like you would if you were masturbating. Also, like other people have said try out different positions and add a water-based lube (oil-based can cause an infection...... reply
Everyone is different. You might want to experiment on your own first. Until you find what makes you tick. It would be best to discuss this with your significant other, so ya'll can find it together. Hey maybe it will spice up both of your sex lives. Just let him know, it's not really him and you don't know why you don't feel it. Especially if ya'...... reply
