Hi, do you think reading yaoi and have fantaisies about it can impact sexual life with bf? I'm beginning to read Yaoi and I discover how horny it can put me sometimes, then I masturbate myself. I fear to develop too much this fantasy life and feel less desire for my bf... Or can it be the reverse? Can it led me to have more sex with him? What are your experiences about that subject?
In my experience, reading BL made me wanting to have intercourse with my partner more often (๑•̀ㅂ•́)و✧.
But too much of anything is never good, so as long as you can balance and control the two activities, I don't see any harm in it 1 reply
