As a wlw youth
I sorta had a relationship, if you can call it that, it went down in flames, after the phone call with the confession including me excepting her feelings, she never brought it up and started ignoring me. After that and realizing my feelings, I never had a relationship only crushes after that, I can't help but wonder about relationships you know? It's normal for teens to yearn for a relationship, I am not saying I won't be happy without one, but I still like the ideas, of dates, potential future with someone. As a youth idk how to even meet someone, or even talk to someone with similar feelings as I do.. you won't have that causal meeting it seems you haft to online date or a gay bar. I feel sort of helpless I guess, and maybe hearing advice or experiences may help settle my thoughts. Thank you for reading have a lovely day/night!
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wow yes i have had something quite similar. i rushed into a relationship with a friend but after some time, quite soon, we didnt even text for weeks. it wasnt great so we broke up. And i agree with the rest of your text thingy :p dates are great but i think i should get to know the person better and not ruaah into things. i felt single even tho i had a girlfriend. we honestly only went on a few dates and there are so many dates that i think are really cute and i want to try them out and stuff but maybe sometime when i find the right person. its tough to find the right person tho. like you said idk how to even meet someone, or even talk to someone with similar feelings as I do, i have the same. im underage in fact so i cant really so anything besides meeting someone casually i think but sure haha we'll figure this out okay? (and your question is posted a really long time ago so maybe it worked out and youre in a happy relationship, then congrats! u got one! if not, congrats! no more spending money on dates! haha sorry im not great at cheering people up) i wish you the best <3 (i wonder if youll ever read this)
SO Sorry! A month after you reply sorry didn't know,that you didn't get notifications for these... But I get you and what you say about rushing, the struggle as a minor! Also I'm still living the single life, had a crush she was straight ah yes the cycle continues.. But thank you for your sweet words, if you ever want to gush about girls or date ideas i'm around feel free to msg me ^-^