can lgbtq+ women stop preaching about straight women fetishizing gay men?
y'all are just as capable of fetishizing gay men as well. fyi, being lgbtq+ doesnt give you a free pass and y'all love to pull the "yaoi was founded by lgbtq+ women and they used it to express themselves reeeeee" yeah bc expressing yourself through r@pe fetishism between gay men is something to be proud of. big yikes. (the fact that yaoi esp. from pre 2010 era is known for its romanticism of r*pe is pretty creepy ngl). there is nothing wrong w consuming mlm content as a woman straight or not just dont be a creep about it. it's not hard. im all for addressing problematic behavior but lbr, lgbtq+ women are quick to call out straight women while simultaneously doing the same thing
Did you find that here? Seems weird. I only ever find that on Youtube or Facebook where the kids showed up post-lobotomy.
I'm a lesbian and have been a BL lover for hmm...don't know the exact amount of time but longer than a decade by far.
Most people here aren't that stupid. And everyone whining about the fetishization of people (any of them) doesn't have the capacity to understand what they're talking about. I've had this conversation with people before and it all comes down to the same old argument. The same argument they used to oppress us. The same argument that they still use:
'I don't like it so it must be bad.'
LGBTQ people are just as prone to this way of thinking as any other group. Actually, since we have had to stick together in a group that is comparatively small, it's easier for this kind of crazy to stick around (you don't want to lose allies because you think they're being a twat when it's so hard to make them). But I find this more often comes from straight women.
If you are homophobic but a BL lover though, I think you're a piece of shit. Don't think liking BL makes you a piece of shit. But you are fetishizing while being a piece of shit. I met a lot of those types on Facebook and it killed my faith in humanity.
Sorry Tovah. I did that thing where I hit the wrong 'answer' button.
If there was one thing I could change about this site...
Ikr, ice been reading this thread and the answers confuse me so not only can people not delete stuff but like everything is bundled up lmao
Did you find that here?
Seems weird. I only ever find that on Youtube or Facebook where the kids showed up post-lobotomy.
I'm a lesbian and have been a BL lover for hmm...don't know the exact amount of time but longer than a decade by far.
Most people here aren't that stupid. And everyone whining about the fetishization of people (any of them) doesn't have the capacity to understand what they're talking about. I've had this conversation with people before and it all comes down to the same old argument. The same argument they used to oppress us. The same argument that they still use:
'I don't like it so it must be bad.'
LGBTQ people are just as prone to this way of thinking as any other group. Actually, since we have had to stick together in a group that is comparatively small, it's easier for this kind of crazy to stick around (you don't want to lose allies because you think they're being a twat when it's so hard to make them). But I find this more often comes from straight women.
If you are homophobic but a BL lover though, I think you're a piece of shit. Don't think liking BL makes you a piece of shit. But you are fetishizing while being a piece of shit. I met a lot of those types on Facebook and it killed my faith in humanity.