PLEASE HELP!!
A friend asked me to just casually date.
We are hs friends and he confessed that time but I turned him down politely. Well, no hard feelings tho and continued to be friends and lost contact at some point. After several years, we sort of got in touch again. U know just the little chat updates , advices about his recent break up and shared interests. Then today, just asked me if I'm okay to casually date.
What does it mean? Does it make sense that I told them I need to think about it? I mean, I had a bad break up 2 years ago and still healing so i feel guilty using him at some point. He told me to just enjoy and not to worry but here I am doing the opposite. Are my guilty feelings invalid or u know overreacting? Please help :(
You aren't overreacting and your guilty feelings are valid. I was also in a similar situation and I chose to break it off - prioritize your feelings first hun, your feelings are much more important in these situations!!
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08 07,2021
