My dad takes away my electronics for a week if I don't finish practicing 2 hours of piano per day. I think its unfair, since I normally finish practice, but if I miss one day then it all gets taken away. I feel like he's starting to become crazy with everything going on. idk. he also has anger issues, and my mom and sister have been giving him tons of chances, but I just don't think its working out. I want to move out, but I am still underaged and therefore cannot afford to do so. he's been yelling at the family a lot and everyones just getting rlly tired. I don't know what to do at this point. someone please give me some advice. I really don't know what to do anymore.
If he's being abusive, leave, go to child services etc.
If he isn't/you can't or don't want to leave, the only option is to either wait it out or get that guy some therapy. Get your mum and sister to help u give your father some anger management or something similar (like band together to make sure he does it). 1 reply
You should confront him and tell him how irrational he's being. If you already keep up with practicing piano than what's the issue? A routine of practicing daily for 2-hours might become a tedious habit built into your schedule than an actual hobby. However if talking wont go through to him and he's not the type of person to sit down and listen tha...... 1 reply
Hi! I hope you're doing well. First, I want to reassure you that what you are feeling is valid. You are going through something very tough and you are allowed to feel how you are feeling; Please never feel like you are over reacting. With that said, you are very strong for dealing with this. In my opinion, what your dad is doing is not correct. I ...... reply