Want to break up with my bf
hey, so i'm dating someone, but he's so uh... i don't know how to explain.
he always asks for my photo almost every hour. and he always wants to call almost every hour. it makes me uncomfortable, because i still have other activities and he doesn't give me privacy. i want to break up with him, but i feel like a bad person.
even I once told him, calling almost every hour made me uncomfortable. He said he understood and would not do it again. The next day he did it again
Me and my boyfriend have the same hobby, which is watching anime and playing games.
I've taken my time many times to play games with him.
(oh me and my boyfriend are in a LDR )
when my friends came to visit he didn't let me hang up the call. and when I muted the call he forced me to unmute, the reason was because
"I want to hear your voice"
like you have heard my voice many times.
I want to break up but I feel like a bad person
What should I do?
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Control.
He wants it and gets it by “not letting you” do things. In a relationship when you find your partner “not letting you” do the normal activities of your life, consider it a big red flag warning.
Respect.
Where is his respect for you? You expressed how a behaviour of his made you uncomfortable. It was a fair and reasonable request that he totally ignored even though he said he understood. That lets you know what he wants is more important to him than what you need.
Breaking up is unpleasant and can make you feel mean when the other person still wants you but it’s best to just do it. Staying in a toxic or awkward relationship is something too many girls do. Be strong, make a clean break and don’t give in to emotional manipulation. There is nothing bad about being the one to end things.
ya gotta break up n block his ass honey.
Ur bf is obsessed, please break up with him for your own safety, this is not normal relationship behavior. The longer this drags out the more dangerous it could get. If he really liked you, he would respect your boundaries and give you space.
You should break up , you're not a bad person at alllll. The guy is too possessive of you that it may be accounted as stalking and manipulation. A guy should understand you and especially give you space!! He might keep on doing this and it will become a repetitive unhealthy habit which is bad for both of you ヘ（。□°）ヘ
That's so creepy ur bf is like obsessing over you u should break up with him cause it might be even creepier if u stay with him.
I think you should be straight forward with him. It may be hard but if you don't say anything you'll just regret it. You could tell him that he is making you uncomfortable. When you do break it off you could say something that's not too harsh. I wish you luck