Want to break up with my bf
hey, so i'm dating someone, but he's so uh... i don't know how to explain.
he always asks for my photo almost every hour. and he always wants to call almost every hour. it makes me uncomfortable, because i still have other activities and he doesn't give me privacy. i want to break up with him, but i feel like a bad person.
even I once told him, calling almost every hour made me uncomfortable. He said he understood and would not do it again. The next day he did it again
Me and my boyfriend have the same hobby, which is watching anime and playing games.
I've taken my time many times to play games with him.
(oh me and my boyfriend are in a LDR )
when my friends came to visit he didn't let me hang up the call. and when I muted the call he forced me to unmute, the reason was because
"I want to hear your voice"
like you have heard my voice many times.
I want to break up but I feel like a bad person
What should I do?
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I personally don’t think you should feel bad, there is a line between being loving and being obsessive. And you have even told him that you don’t appreciate his behavior(given him a chance to change) but he still continues.
You Are NOT a bad person by braking up with him!
(Update) When i said i want to break up with him,he start talking abt death,which make me scared.
But don't worry the problem is solved(bad English sorry)
Don’t feel bad for what u think will make u feel better, girl if u feel uncomfortable get rid of the person or thing to make u feel safe and better there is nothing wrong with that but be safe ok !!
I don’t know if I deserve to give advice since I’ve never been in a relationship but uh I just wanna ask do you still love him? Do you still wanna continue the relationship? Then maybe ‘test the waters’ and see if its still salvageable. Have a long talk with him, explain all of it to him an come up with a solution that works best for you two. Ex. limit the calls to [insert number] a day. Tell him you have your own life out of the relationship too and that you two can’t always spend every waking hour of the day talking together. Don’t push yourself into keeping a relationship you’ve already given up on already/ felt uncomfortable in though, I hope you end up with a decision that’ll make things turn for the better for you
:)
Also as @Windex Senpai said, it would be best if you two take a break first, rethink things and all.
Bc from what I got from this post, he’s obsessed.
Your boyfriend shouldn’t be someone who makes you uncomfortable, it should be the complete opposite. If you don’t feel comfortable in the relationship, and he doesn’t seem to respect your boundaries, it may be better to break up. It doesn’t matter if it hurts his feelings, what should matter to you is your own feelings. If it feels like it isn’t working, then breaking up is usually the best option.
Oops I accidentally posted it 2 times!! （￣へ￣）
Instead of breaking up, how about taking a break in your guys's relationship. It seems that you need time to think about breaking up, and I feel like setting boundaries with each other should be good as well. You have to assert dominance once in a while in your relationship. (⊙…⊙ )
Instead of breaking up, how about taking a break in your guys's relationship. It seems that you need time to think about breaking up, and I feel like setting boundaries with each other should be good as well. You have to assert dominance once in a while in your relationship.
Girl that is over possessiveness . If he doesn't even respect you privacy you gotta smack his booty over y'know. And also you will not be considered a bad person because everyone has their privacy which others should respect. So In my view you should break up with him dear >3 But still it's your choice.(￣∇￣")