So I came out to my sister...
Today, I came out as a pan to my sister. I was trying my best to explain to her what it is, that there is an abundance amount of genders, that sexual orientation isn't a choice and it could change in the course of time. Also that it goes the same to her.
Then she told me she had an intuition that I might be attracted to the same sex cause of our past discussion where I keep insisting to get an answer from her about why she think it's a waste of someone if they're attracted with the same sex. It's quite interesting and I wanted to know her reasonings behind her thinking. Well, I didn't get any straight answer, lol. Also I keep hearing it from a lot of people but never got the chance to ask why they think such. Have you ever think of someone to be a waste for being attracted to the same sex? Why is that?
Anyway, after I explained stuffs to her, she find me weird, the whole pan thing. Tho I kinda understand her reaction since she's new to the whole thing and bi is the only sexual orientation she know other than straight. Also we never got to talk about these kinds of topics and I feel like coming out to her today cause I feel that I could trust her. She's like a best friend to me and life in the closet is kinda tiring where I keep out any words that would make her sus when describing my crushes to her.
It just felt nice now I won't be concealing a part of myself from her.
I'm proud of you. I also came out to my grandmother as pansexual earlier too, she then replied "Oh so you don't only like boys?" and glanced at me with a curious expression on her face, i nodded. she took a long time to reply but she then spoke, "Oh dear, it must've been hard for you since they kept pressuring you to go and meet those boys that you......
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04 07,2021