confusion

i need answers cuz i'mma female right and a pan sexual one at that but my level of attraction towards feminine cis women is like at a 20 or 10 %, now to the confusing part i always find myself being more dominant and masculine. Instead of me getting fucked i rather be the one doing the fucking no matter who i'm in a relationship with with, i don't view man the way straight woman do i view men the way a gay top would for example i find myself attracted to they ass and viewing them being submissive to me and gay porn turns me on outta every other porn genre, now i thought maybe i was supposed to be a gay men you know but hell naw i'm constantly having the battle with myself where sometimes i wanna be a men and sometimes i don't it's so fucking frustrating.

and like i don't fully wanna be a men i just want my voice deeper and probably a penis if i can get one.

someone just please help me already. ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

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ceruleanlights 02 07,2021

Here’s an actual answer to your confusions: separate your sexual identity from your gender identity confusions. Being/wanting to be a man is NOT about the sex, it’s about you actually wanting to be a different gender. If you take out the “wanting to fuck someone” part out of your confusion, do you still want to be a man? If yes, then explor...... 1 reply

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vermana 02 07,2021

honestly, same. the only thing is that i wanna top men but i wanna bottom with girls. reply

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disappointed 02 07,2021

You weren't suppose to be anything besides yourself, you saying you want to be or you're supposed to be a gay man is weird. A trans person would never say i want to be a woman, i want to be a man, they would only want to be themselves and who they are is a woman/man. The thing you wrote sounds kinda iffy to me you could be a femdom myb but a gay ma...... 1 reply

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Gino Iq 02 07,2021

Have u ever considered u might be non-binary, it could explain your attraction a bit, u should experiment with labels and see what your comfortable with reply

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Lori-go 02 07,2021

I was like somewhat sadisctic but then I was like no but then I was like confusion reply

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imAbutthole 02 07,2021

too much yaois luv, all i can say is touch some grass and drink water. 1 reply

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DILFO 02 07,2021

The question is if you have the capability of getting used to that role ngl its harder than u think and also you have to study abt that stuff u be talkin bout and yea if you just had this preference just bc it makes u horknee or sumn welp it might lead you to just fetishizing mlm but nonetheless, if you are willing take a step well go on but if yo...... reply

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peepeepoopoocheck 02 07,2021

i want mens privilige lol reply

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†ʜAᴋAɱ (눈‿눈). 02 07,2021

That part of being human nature emotions.. reply

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Ted 02 07,2021

What??” So you’re a switch?? My brain can’t comprehend this..I even had to read this with one eye closed to actually try and understand what you’re saying. You can learn how to naturally develop a deeper voice on youtube strap on dicks exist. reply

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