Relationships disaster

Is tgere anyone doing their best to maintain a good relationship but only getting shit?
I'm currently having problems with my sis my roommate my classmate my cousins and my supposed best rriend through facebook i can't see that's my fault cause i was really nice but sometimes i can't take it so i told them nicely i swear i nvr screamed or anything that this is hurting me or this is making me uncomfortable then they got angry and blamed me saying i only think of myself i'm selfish and no one will ever be my friend or close to me or even love me i tried seeing myself if i was wrong or anything i even consulted other ppl asking if i was wrong i eould apologize but if i'm nit why would i take this from everyone i seriously thought something is off with me since i'm the one fighting with everyone but when i see through details i can't find why is it my fault ( T﹏T )