I have a controversial question...

? this question doesn't make sense?? Are you asking why people use pansexuality or are you implying that it's not a real thing. And same with the sexes part... Uh I'll try to cover a broad topic? I'm not trying to attack you so I'm sorry if I come across as if i am and you genuinely are asking this... Pansexuality is like bisexuality, almost the s......   2 reply

alrighty, somewhat unrelated, but here's my big pansexuality=bisexuality proof. lets start off with the proof that the first modern coined usage of the term was in a forum a while back (maybe around 2010?) that claimed "unlike bi people, pansexuals love all genders, like transgender and nonbinary. we are attracted to personality. hearts not parts......   1 reply

why can't everyone be valid? it's not like they're doing something wrong, are they? sexuality is fluid and gender is a construct (gender identity is okay tho) it's just a matter of here you are most comfortable identifying as   reply

Personally I see pan as liking a person regardless of gender and bi as liking two or more genders   reply

I would say it's because people are mixing up the terms "sex"(biological aspect) and "gender"(self expression). Sexuality refers to attraction to sex. Heterosexual- attraction to the opposite sex from yourself Homosexual-attraction to the same sex as yourself Bisexual-attraction to both sexes Asexual-without attraction to the sexes There are o......   reply

Because even if you classify the world as binary male and female, there are still people that may dress masculine or feminine, people who are intersex, people in transitioning, etc. Pan people could theoretically fall in love with any of them based solely on personality. Something like bisexual implies liking only female or male presenting people (......   reply

For people who dont give a fork about how someone identifys,   reply

Pansexual is sexual orientation, male and female are genders/sexual identities. They are not apple to apple. But I get it with sexes or genders, but there's no need to validate your sexual orientation, if you believe you're pan instead of bi yeah you do you, some people see ir differently some people see it as the same thing, doesnt matter. There a......   reply

As an Omnisexual (who gets called Pan, Biphobic, and Bi-eraser a lot) If u took time to look up Bisexual/ Omnisexual and Pansexual you will see those are very different. I'm not about to say why but people have preferences on how they would like there sexuality to be. Mine is just very specific. I like all genders but prefer girls/feminine body so ......   reply

Btw I’m not saying that in a passive aggressive way I’m asking what’s make something like that valid?   2 reply