A more mature discussion (for the degenerates)

What do you y'all think about the "ugly bastard" trope in porn/hentai/etc.- I honestly hate the trope completely. The concept doesn't even make sense like an attractive person is on display to be fucked by this Nasty and we're meant to enjoy it?? To be fair I do love the ugly characters in BL because those types tend to be on the receiving end and it doesn't glorify the person being fucked