anyone who’s non mlm/nlm shouldnt be primarily reading/watching bl/yaoi’s same way someone who isnt wlw/nlw shouldnt be primarily watching/reading yuris/lesbian porn.
the majority of the bl fanbase are fujos who fetishise us mlm and thats wrong. don’t use men watching lesbian porn etc to justify this because both are equally wrong. that being said, men watching lesbian porn is regarded is a waaay bigger than women fetishising mlm despite the fact that both are equally wrong and disgusting.
and also, watching hentai is considered as unethical because women are often objectified and other such things in hentai. so people are hated on for watching hentai as well.
fetishising sexualities and people isn’t okay just cause others do it so i really don’t understand why you brought up these certain examples, all of which you claim are not hated on that are in reality, very much rightfully hated on.

also, reading bl’s doesn’t necessarily equal fetishisation, so reading it casually and just as much as you read bxg’s and gxgs is okay. but if you exclusively or primarily read bl’s, that’s not right.
however, yaoi (Yaoi is a Japanese term for manga that features sexual romance between men, specifically as created by and for women — it is different from regular bl’s) is WRONG and women shouldn’t be reading it bc its whole existence is wrong. its the same thing as lesbian porn being created for men. its fetishising a sexuality. thats disgusting asf.

y’all fujos don’t respect us mlm one bit and it shows, especially when yall get mad at us for asking yall not to fetishise us and to not read yaoi’s.
and if y’all attack me, an mlm person, for being uncomfortable with being fetishised by thirsty women, then i really have nothing to say. i wish i could say i don’t care about the slander we mlm receive from women when we ask you not to fetishise us, but honestly it hurts a shitton, gives me nightmares and anxiety attacks more than i’d like to even admit. /g /srs

p.s. sorry about any poor grammar or typos, its 6 am here.
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