so how do i come out to my parents as agender?

Don't come out unless you have a secure home, have your belongings already prepped and a large sum of money (around 1000$ I'd say)   reply

Well I say just tell them directly... How you really feel and hope for the best,Good luck.   reply

Maybe: 1. Don't 2. Send them a message 3. Write them a note 4. Buy a pride flag 5. Pretend that you already told them and just correct them when they use the wrong pronouns/name (optional: come out to your friends first, and they can help with this) 6. Do what I did (coming out as nonbinary) and just tell them (optional: cry a lot as well, because ......   reply

im not even sure if im agender or a demiboy or whatever   reply

You should probably tell them when you have your own place so they can't kick you out or something. Maybe like show them the agender flag so you don t have to say it directly. Or maybe say "hey I heard my friend came out as agender (or what they generally think of agender people) what do you think about it?" And maybe see what there reaction is if ......   reply