Fling

So like since its quarantine I have been playing a lot of games and it includes me talking to players from my team, I met three guys in the game and we have been talking or you could say flirting (not all at once just dif frametime) when my friends asked them one by one when we play trio the other one said "it was a secret"' the two confessed they had a girlfriend whilst flirting with me one of them even asked my permission to be a fling which I denied now I don't know what to do, the first and last time I confessed to someone was also a person from the game (we don't talk anymore but his friends are also my friends cus he introduced them to me) which is kinda awkward cus I unfriended him. I have been trying to find love but all the guys I meet always treat me as a second option.