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So recently, a girl who I always considered to be a friend confessed to me. I am a girl and mostly openly bisexual, but this is the first time a girl has told me she likes me. But here's the problem: one of the main reasons I started getting close to her was because I wanted to get close to a my crush from a while back, and they happened to be really close friends (I know it seems bad and I do regret getting close to her in that way). However, I have a bad tendency to flirt with the people I'm comfortable with, her included, and now I feel like this resulted in her liking me. What's more, she confessed in a hurry, and so I agreed to go on a date with her without thinking, but I don't really have those kind of feelings for her.
What do I do? I'm scared that if I reject her now, she's going to hate me and we won't go back to being friends, but I'm also scared to betray her by agreeing to go out with her and then hurting her feelings because I don't like her back.
Maybe you should tell her that you're not completely sure with your feelings for her and you need more time. Go on a date, get to know her and if things don't progress well just tell her that the feelings you have aren't strong enough for you guys to be more than friends. I don't think you should rush to the conclusion that you have no feelings for......
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16 09,2019
I feel it's best to be honest
She'll respect you for not omitting the truth and explain how you had her interests at heart
Hope this helps
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16 09,2019
I think its important that if you are absolutely against it, you let her know right away. If she is truly a "friend" then don't make her suffer more than necessary.
If you are not completely against it, why not try it? On the one hand, you have a one-sided crush. On the other you have someone you know for sure loves you.
However if you do decide ......
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16 09,2019
Just say no. Why would she hate you for saying no? If anything she'd just be sad. If she's mad from that then does she even (properly) like you? Honesty is always the right option. If you lie it'd just hurt her more.
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16 09,2019
