Okay tell me

stay apart, keep the distance if not grow it. my dad and i clash wayyy to much and he's already in my life. And he's still a stranger despite living under the same roof, so i would prefer if he would go away for some time.   reply

I'll face him like nothing happened. In my family we sweep things under the rug and ignore certain things. It's not the best trait to have but   reply

I'd fucking shoot him how'd he even get my address?   reply

Keep the distance. If he wants to be close to me, he's going to have to earn it by putting in the effort to get to know me and connect with me. He can't just walk away from his kid and expect them to receive him with open arms as if nothing happened :/   reply